Sharing Happiness and Sadness

people in this world seem to share more of their happiness than sadness..
is that a good thing?.. is that a right thing?..
very often we would tell everyone around us when something good happens..
we would congratulate each other and celebrate together..
yet when we have problems..
we like to keep them to ourselves..
bearing the worries and burden alone..
would the world be a better place if everybody could just share everything..
but problems of free loaders would start appearing..
people might start expecting others to handle their difficulties..
without giving any shit themselves..
hai.. u can't please everyone..
neither can u help everyone..

"use to think that u were all laughter and smiles..
that u were living a happy and problem free life..
realised u are just like any other normal teenager..
growing up in this competitive and stressful environment of singapore..
u are struggling with jc life.. with its never ending tests and exams..
trying to cope with the countless tuitions and homework..
i understand what u are going thru.. as i myself have gone thru it..
not really good at encouragement or comfort..
as i always seem to be on the receiving end..
everybody have their good times and bad times..
yet i feel that we only share our happiness with each other..
we seldom burden each other with our worries or difficulties..

i am also going thru a mini rough patch..
was feeling fustrated about my new life at central fire station..
i thought being a medic would be fun and cool..
yet i feel that i am not adjusting fast enough to the work and conditions..
only one month and so many complaints about me..
furthermore the seniors give me extra jobs and duties as i am a junior..
i know it is normal for them to behave like that..
but i just feel miserable and irritated..
never had the chance to tell u or anymore..
but at least i feel much better now..

hai.. life is a slow and tiring process of new experiences.. adjustments and changes..
we just need to try and remember more of the good times..
while letting go of the bad memories or worrying times..
at least i have the jap dinner date with u.. i can look forward to.. "

*share your problems with me.. let me try..